WORK WITH ME
FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
ONE ON ONE
"THE DIFFICULT PATIENT"
React to Relating training
3 hours
$450
GROUP FULL DAY
ONE DAY FULL OFFICE TRAINING
Up to 8 people in WA
$2400
CUSTOM
CUSTOM TRAININGS
Speak with Tanya for needs and pricing
WORK WITH ME
When was the last time you felt free to be so completely yourself that you had no care or anxiety about how you were going to be received? That is what I will help you to redeem.
HOW IT WORKS
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Start by downloading your Four Core Fallacies Worksheet (pdf).
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Schedule an initial 90 min exploration session to review your answers with me and discover if now is the right time for you to work with me.
If you already know that you are ready now for an Essential Relating Threshold - 3 Day Retreat, complete this intake/application and you will receive a scheduled call from me to confirm your attendance..
HOW I WORK
Using a tool I call Authenticating Your 4 Core Emotions and 4 Core Intentions, I help you find and give true voice to senses and perceptions of your self that have been long stifled and are causing division and separation in relationships.
What I have discovered is that when you can embrace your own sense of separation from yourself and the beauty of life, you can reconcile your grief about loving and losses, about your experiences of betrayal and being trusting, you can allow others to see you again, as you actually are, and intimacy becomes as natural as an authentic invitation.
When you feel ready to confront your own barriers to intimacy and real connection, these are the stages I will guide you to work through.
Relationships get complicated when one or more of these four relationship fallacies is running the show and become exhausting while you are actually dissatisfied, but pretending to be fine.
The Four Fallacies of Resource and Relationship according to ER are:
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I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT - This is connected to the core emotion of anger at the center of the emotional body.
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I DON'T HAVE WHAT I NEED - This is connected to the core emotion of fear one stage up from anger.
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I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT - This is connected to the next up core emotion, sadness.
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I DON'T WANT TO HURT ANYONE - The final core emotion, happy/unhappy is threatened by having to tell the truth and risk the possibility of hurting someone's feelings, which in turn means I don't get what I want from them, a vicious cycle.
Through a series of revealing discoveries, as we locate your deepest core interests and experiences and unveil your most natural talents as authentic expressions, you will have a sense of coming home.
IMMERSION EXPERIENCE RETREATS
Essential Relating Threshold
You already have the love you need, now reclaim your skills and communicate that love in all of your relationships.
Discover the core wounds at the source of your feelings of disconnection and confusion in relationships and begin healing your capacity for authentic connection. This retreat helps you locate what keeps you stuck and reveals your natural capacity to experience and express your own true Desires and Drives through your own true Disciplines, and all of that given by your uniquely articulated Devotion.
Upcoming Dates
to be confirmed
If you feel ready to do the deep work of an Essential Relating Threshold - 3 Day Retreat, complete this intake/application.
This weekend is for YOU if any or all apply:
You are someone who:
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has a deep desire to live authentically and with a high degree of personal accountability in your relationships
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has participated in self discovery work and has found that you are still looking for more effective tools in relating more authentically and effectively in all of your relationships
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considers authentic human connection to be critical to your quality of life
What is this Essential Relating Threshold?
This weekend is an inquiry into how you hold your story about experiences of shame, dignity and personal authority, which is to say how you discern when is the right time and what is the right thing to say or do, while interacting with someone who is upset or emotionally dysregulated.
This journey is a way back to your own inherent guide as the native connection to your own true emotional arousal or erotic intelligence – the source of your capacity to experience true freedom and full expression of power, not just for yourself, but as a valuable contributor in any environment that calls you to it.
This Revel Threshold weekend is a full three-day weekend retreat. It is not a light, contemplative, relaxing weekend. It is a rigorous engagement of your time, energy and focus. It is demanding. Yet, by engaging in it, you will get to experience an entirely new way of relating to who you truly are, as your most authentic self, allowing you to be more available to relate meaningfully with those who are important to you, whether in personal relationships or in the relationships you form with your clients or patients. It is an initiatory threshold into restoring your unique erotic intelligence, your unique connection to, and partnership with, life.
This weekend is a beginning, not a completion. It is the beginning of deep and true accountability and responsibility for living fully in the gift of spirit and soul that you were uniquely designed to bring and breathe into the world. It is the beginning of freely communicating honestly and accurately, without diminishing anyone. It is the beginning of feeling at home in your own skin and helping others to do the same.
Included in the course tuition are monthly group follow-up sessions for practicing and integrating the tools of Essential Relating using your newly found and named Devotion.
We will investigate your responses to questions like:
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What does it mean for YOU to relate authentically?
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How do you reconcile relationship wounds and recall your own true capacity to connect authentically with others?
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How do you navigate difficult conversations when one or both parties get upset and elevated and are unable to remain calm and centered?
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How do you have the necessary difficult conversations with people about sensitive matters in a way that allows you to expand and deepen intimacy rather than feel more divided and separate?
RETREAT LOGISTICS
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Located at a 3 acre private getaway retreat center with private massage room and outdoor hot tub access on the beautiful Quilcene River less than 2 hours from Seattle.
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Lodging with meals included
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Semi Private Cabin: $745
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Shared Dorm Space: $475
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Camping: $375
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If you feel ready to do the deep work of an Essential Relating Immersion - 3 Day Retreat, complete this intake/application.
You will experience a natural repairing of your most centered and trustworthy self.
You do not have to choose between stable and grounded or excited and passionate. You can embody both. You are designed to embrace states of being that are deeply grounded alongside states of ecstatic inspiration, in the same breath.
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